Competition brings out the best and the worst in us, everyone loves to win over losing.

It is as if your identity or worth is entangled in the outcome of the game which at some point, if it is not kept in check or understood, becomes more than just a game, it becomes your life, the period between games is influenced by the outcome, win and you’re on top of the world, lose and you feel like you’ve lost a loved one.

How important is winning to you?

How far will you go to win?

What are you prepared to give up in order to win?

Think about this for a while and see if you’re confident in your identity and what defines it.